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(#12) Nice Guys Buy Into The (Imaginary) Jock V. Nerd Binary
At some point, people began to believe the myth preached by '80s movies: that jocks and nerds exist in an eternal struggle for superiority. Nice Guys believe that the world is a giant high school where women are attracted to jocks and frat bros while sidelining anyone who isn't propping themselves up as an alpha male. This way of thinking is incredibly sad, and it shows that so-called Nice Guys believe that they need to play the victim in order to get anyone to pay attention to them. The truth of the matter is that there is no single way any person needs to be. You can be a jock (whatever that means) who is a nice person in the same way that a Nice Guy can be a complete douchebag.
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(#1) Nice Guys Feel Entitled To Certain Treatment
Graffiti seen in Melbourne...#NiceGuys #RickandMorty pic.twitter.com/53G7RidpYj
— �� Devan De Sade (@devandesade) December 11, 2017The most obvious sign of a Nice Guy is someone who doesn't understand why they're not rewarded with sex for doing something "good." Be it holding a door open for someone or driving a friend home when they're too drunk to drive, Nice Guys are obsessed with what you owe them for not leaning into their worst fantasies. There's no cosmic force that tallies up your good deeds in order to dish out an appropriate amount of rewards, and if you're doing something specifically because you want to be rewarded, they aren't actually good deeds. A popular unattributed quote sums it all up nicely: "Women are not vending machines that you put kindness coins in until sex falls out."
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(#10) Nice Guys Can't Communicate Their Feelings
If you want to be in a long-term relationship, you have to learn how to communicate. Nice Guys would rather sulk and brood than have an actual conversation with whatever helpless young woman they manage to snare in their Cheeto-dusted talons. A relationship can't last if both partners aren't putting an equal amount of work into it. If you aren't prepared to have a few tough days in your relationship, then you don't deserve to experience the highs that can come from spending your best days with someone you love.
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(#8) They See Friendship As A Means To An End
Tell me, how long is that neckbeard? pic.twitter.com/Ym2ihjI3RY
— Punished Aqua (@Aquabased) October 28, 2017Nice Guys are notorious for bringing up the dreaded "friendzone." Unfortunately for them, the friendzone isn't a thing that actually exists. It's just called being friends. Is it really so bad that someone likes your personality enough to be friends with you? Instead of turning every interaction that you have with a woman into an attempt to weasel your way into some sex, why not try having a genuine conversation? Or just never talk to anyone again.
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(#11) Nice Guys Go From 0 to 100 Instantly
One of the strangest things about Nice Guys is how quickly they escalate things with unsuspecting women. There are hundreds of catalogued exchanges between Nice Guys and the objects of their affection where they start with "you seem really nice" and jump to "I would make sure you were cared for and protected." No one wants to hear a stranger tell them that they're the only person who can protect them. When a Nice Guy says something along those lines, it usually comes with an implied "or else." Take it easy when you're talking to someone. You don't have to prove how great you are in an opening text message; you just have to prove you're not a creep.
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(#5) They Freak Out If They Don't Get Their Way
In @tnyshouts: "Why won’t women date me, a very nice guy?" https://t.co/6TGkilIdok pic.twitter.com/een3YHaJCa
— The New Yorker (@NewYorker) December 14, 2017A lot of Nice Guys come from a home where they were never told "no" by their parents. They haven't faced rejection in any real way, so when they're turned down by the object of their affection, they freak out and punch a wall. Learning how to handle rejection, or even just bad news, with aplomb is something that has to be learned over time. If you throw a tantrum or act out inappropriately when something doesn't go your way, then how do you expect to handle the curve balls that come with real life? Think about it, NGs.
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Many people are always good at using benevolent terms to describe how nice he/she is, and at the same time belittle the bad behavior of other people. Most people can't know the true personality of each other when they first date, some people are trying their best to pretend to be nice gut at the beginning of the relationship.
Don't trust others easily when she/he describes himself/herself as a nice guy, which is almost always a surefire sign that a guy is not actually good. The random tool lists 12 signs that reveal people are not so nice as you think.
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